I don’t like when guys are ambiguous in their intentions. It’s too much mental energy I have to spend wondering what they mean. My Life Long Crush is confusing me with his intentions. A friend told him that I would like to sleep with him, and he told her he was open to the idea. He is much older than I am, but still leads a very young lifestyle. He hasn’t had sex for a huge period of time because he doesn’t do hook ups or one night stands. We’ve known each other forever. Based off his response to my friend’s question I decided to make a move. One night when we were finishing a group get together I invited him to my place for a drink, and he turned it down. The next week though he seemed to be flirting with me, and then at the end gave me a very long hug, and held my hand while saying that we should get together sometime besides when the rest of us get together. Now he has told me he’s giving up drinking for two weeks, so he wants to go to the museum The Cloisters which seems rather date ish to me.
What does this mean? I’m really fine with any situation from a one time hook up to dating, and he is one of the few guys who interests me enough to be willing to make it anything more than a hook up. Is he trying to make it a date, or is he trying to remain just friends? Help.
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